Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. Me and my husband has been married for almost 2 years now, and have been together for almost 12years. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. To his defense, when we were great, we were great.
I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. It also means that you have to give her something particular to do. He is my soul mate and we love each other very much. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you. Best wishes in whatever you decide. To sum up, they're incapable of loving anyone but themselves and the thought of a marriage counselor freaks them out as this would mean confronting their ultimate excuse of "I'm too busy". I am a something male. When you are a man married to a female doctor.
A lot of people are religious. As time has gone by I realized that the opinons of others is not important to me and oddly enough those who did not originally approve have had their hearts and minds changed by the love my husband shows me, our daughter, and the members of my family. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. That is the million dollar question. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense. I thought it was beautiful that they included him in the circle, even though he was not a Priesthood holder. Sunday is considered sacred by Mormons, and they do not undertake any entertaining or outdoor activities that result in spending, on that day.
The standard principles of day game apply. You sound like a wonderful person. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. I am often kind of waiting around until the last minute for him to contact me and let me know when he's free or I have to pursue him, which doesn't make me feel like he's very into me. In fact, when I first met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor. She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. Just let things keep going.